Let’s do this together…


I spoke with a horse owner today and she said, “But you have to be forceful with your horse at some point, right?”


You never have to resort to force. There is another way and it works even better.

It’s about options, opportunities, freedom, and choices.

It’s about not having to say ‘no’ to what you want.

It’s about energy, beliefs and actions – yours.

Here’s how it played out for me:

I opened my heart. I looked at my past and what everyone was telling me I “should do”.

And then I listened to my heart and I changed my mind.

I tuned into the energy and watched the behaviors of my horse each day.

I set myself on a path toward a new (and very different) future.

I am very serious about the process and principles that I use and teach when it comes to horses.

It is my sacred work. It is the reason I am alive. It is what got me… here.

Foundation of Trust

I am a firm believer in the horse and about being an advocate for the horse.

And to a life where I am not limited by other’s “expectations” of how horses should be forced into doing what we want.

Her next response to my “No” was, “Well, making your horse do what you want is the quickest way to get what you want”.

Again, NO!

You don’t have to force your horse to get what you want.

How do you feel if someone tries to force you to do what they want without asking or even discussing the matter?

Horses don’t like it either.

Then instead of making the training go quicker, force actually makes it go slower.

There are more pushbacks, more ups and downs, more inconsistencies, more re-training.

I have seen horse owners struggle for years trying to get their horses to ride out without incident.

And I’ve heard them say that it normally takes years to get a horse “seasoned”.

But it doesn’t take years if you work with your horse and don’t use force.

And I’ve helped countless people who decided to change their mind, recalibrate their energy, and create new rules and dynamics for how life works for them and their horse

Every single personal coaching student of mine has accomplished their dreams in LESS than one year.

Not years.

When you open your heart and choose a new way, allowing your heart to elevate you…

You will never be the same.

And neither will your horse. The relationship can be magical if you let it.

This is exactly what I share inside my personal coaching program. This is a private coaching program, so it’s only you, me and your horse.

As you may be sensing, this isn’t your typical online experience.

It’s an experience of growth and transformation.

It is infused with an energy of healing, clearing, shifting and receiving exactly what you want.

This is different than any other online program you may have heard of or taken part in. I show you how to heal your relationship with your horse and create new dynamics for how the two of you work together.

This isn’t about silly practices that help you get some of what you want haphazardly or sometimes.

This is about changing your life with your horse permanently.

This is about becoming one with the energy of your horse, attracting, and receiving what both of you want.

Intentionally. And on repeat. Forever.

It’s about you becoming a natural horse person, getting what you’ve always wanted with your horse, and your horse getting the best partner he or she could ask for.

Yes, massive action feels scary, but it also feels empowering and exhilarating and full of possibility.

I want to empower you to do what feels right for you.

You can trust your gut. It is safe to follow your desires.

And you can do it all without having to use force.

You can do it all from a place of purpose and desire.

From knowing you are worthy of a life where you are no longer frantic, fearful and freaked out around your horse.

From being confident about your decision to help your horse and bring your dreams into reality.


From the version of you who knows how to work, play, and handle horses… easily.

Embody that version of you, take action, and let’s do this together.

In my experience, when people sign up for my online personal coaching program, they make a declaration to the horse world that they are ready for more.

And the horse world responds accordingly.

Miracles happen. Dreams come true. Things change.

The time is now if you want to change “years” to “less than one year”.

And no, it isn’t expensive.

Private, personal coaching calls on a weekly basis, access to me daily, and a 4 part “proven” program that works and is personalized for you and your horse.

This program contains 50+ games, exercises, audio/video/written lessons, and bonuses that you can use for a lifetime with your horse.

Depending on you and your horse, the program can be done as quickly as 4 months or take as long as 8-10 months. That is up to you.

But I’m there for you the entire time.

I won’t quit on you if you don’t quit on me!

An Exclusive program at an affordable price.

Because you really have to ask yourself…

“What is it that I really want?”

More frustration and heartbreak?

Or a proven plan to help you and your horse live your dream together?

Let me help you: https://teddiezieglerhorsemanship.com/coaching/

The call is free and, as I said above, there’ll be no pressure!

Whatever you decide to do, I hope all your horse dreams come true.

I’d love to hear what they are in the comments section below.

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  • Melanie Jane Bennett says:

    I wonder if a person carrying alot of baggage from your life can truly connect with their horse.
    If your horse can instantly change from placid cob to full fear and flight and back in a couple of seconds.
    We both have a heavy load and I’m finally thinking we will never have trust between us.
    I’ve been told my horse acts like an autistic child and I emotionally can’t hold it together at times.
    I’ve followed you for a long time and admire your way of working. But l see a confident, self-assured person handling her horse, something l have lost now, too many incidents have destroyed my confidence and love and trust.
    No amount of programs and l have tried alot, will get me back where I use to be. I will still follow you and smile.

    • Melanie, please schedule a free call with me so we can talk. You are in the same place a few of my students were when they started and they were able to get it all back. I truly want to help you. We can do this together.

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