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My First Training Experience

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Recently, I was trying to remember what my first training experience was, how old I was, and was it my cat, dog, or horse.

After much thought, I remembered…

It was actually my baby brother, Bryan.

I was 15 years old and my brother was about 12 months old. He had just started saying his first words. His first word was “mama”.

I don’t remember if he was saying “dada” yet but it wasn’t far behind. However, I remember he was really good at saying “babi”. This was his word for his bottle. When he was hungry and wanted his bottle, he said “babi”, and he said it a lot.

My grandfather was a very important figure in my life and I adored him. So, my thought was to get Bryan to say my grandfather’s name as a surprise for him. I called him “Gaga”. It seemed like it would be simple enough to do since it was close to the words he was already saying.

Bryan5“It seemed simple”. Famous last words, right?

Remember, I was only 15 and had NEVER tried training anything before. I was winging it.

I started with just sitting next to him on the floor while he was drinking his bottle and began asking him to say “gaga”. Well that didn’t work. He didn’t stop drinking his “babi”. Plus all his attention was on drinking his bottle because he was hungry.

My next step was to try to get his attention on me. So I moved his bottle and got his attention. Then I asked him to say “gaga”. Again, that didn’t work. He just put his bottle back in his mouth and stared at me.

Then he stopped drinking and was just holding his bottle in his lap and was watching me. Aha, let’s try again. I then said, “say gaga, say gaga”. Nope, nothing. Hmmmm. So, I decided to take his bottle away from him to try to get all of his attention.

Once I started to take the bottle away, Bryan would cry for his “babi”. And since I felt bad about taking it away, I handed it right back. I then tried asking him again to, “say gaga”. No response.

So I decided to compromise and I put my hand on his bottle without taking it away and then asked for him to say “gaga”. He started to say “babi”, because he thought I was going to take it away. I continued to ask for “gaga” without taking my hand off his bottle and without taking his bottle away.

That didn’t seem to do anything as he was only saying “babi”. I took my hand off his bottle and paused trying to figure out what to do next.

Well, the next time I touched his bottle he said, “babi”. I asked again for “gaga” and he finally said “gaga”. Yay. So I stopped touching his bottle and clapped my hands and laughed telling him how good he was. He then said “gaga” again and laughed.

Yippee, I thought. I did it! I couldn’t wait to show my grandfather and my mother that I taught Bryan to say “gaga”. He was saying “gaga” and laughing with me.

Then I went to touch his bottle again and he immediately said, “babi-gaga”.

Bryan2Oops!

From then on when I reached out my hand towards him, he would say “babi-gaga” and laugh. Now when he wanted his bottle he would say “babi-gaga”. That was now what he called his bottle.

The end result was that I didn’t teach him to say his grandfather’s name, but I did teach him a new name for his bottle. But Bryan and I now had a funny experience that we shared and every time he or I said “babi-gaga”, we both would just laugh.

It became a bonding experience that we both loved.

How was he supposed to know at 12 months old that the word “gaga” was supposed to go with his grandfather?

I didn’t have a picture of my grandfather when asking, nor was my grandfather there. I was touching his bottle when asking him to say it, so of course he associated my request and my word with what I was touching. Duh!

All our experiences in life teach us lessons we carry forward that mold who we are and what we teach others. This was one of those times for me.

checking hoovesLessons learned from this that I now use when working with my horses:

  • Don’t try to train while they are eating or hungry and are only thinking about food.
  • Don’t train during their regular feeding times.
  • You need to get and keep their attention when making a request.
  • Think about what you are teaching and how they will associate it with what’s going on around them.
  • Be specific and consistent on what you are trying to train.
  • Train only one thing at a time.

It’s funny looking back how certain things, good and bad, have helped me develop my method of training both horses and humans. I am so grateful for all my experiences.

Do you have any fun stories you would like to share about what you’ve learned with your horse? You can write them in the comments section. I love to hear your stories.

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  • Sarah Hurrell says:

    I love seeing your pictures of you growing up. Hehe. I love that you were trying to teach your brother a word to bless your grandfather. How special. Bet your grandfather laughed when you told him what you were trying to do.:)

    I had a really funny experience with Sahara yesterday. I am floating her out today to somewhere local for some hanging out so yesterday I did some practise with float loading as it’s been a month or so since we last headed out. I was working on sending her in to the float while I stood outside it. We practised it a few times so I could work on her backing out slowly. After the 3rd time, I unclipped the lunge rope and said good job. I moved around to the side of the float to get something and lo and behold, she walked back on the float and stood there. I just laughed. Sometimes I do feed her on the float when she has got on, sometimes when we get to our destination if I am taking her somewhere. So I grabbed her feed bucket and gave her a feed. I am still giggling a out it this morning.

    Big hugs to Merlin. It must be wonderful seeing him grow up. Have a great week. I am finishing off an assignment this week and then will finish your ebook and give feedback. I have been applying your great tips. 🙂

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