They are Still Out There! (Part II)

11  comments

Then she dropped a bombshell.

I was so shocked at her arrogance and her lack of concern for Kit, much less a horse she was being paid to take care of, that I was dumbfounded and silent. And in that silence, she kept talking.

She said that not only did he “starve himself” but that, “He was the most troublesome and problematic horse she has ever dealt with in her 30 years as a professional horse trainer.”

I got such a sick feeling in my stomach on that sentence. She obviously really disliked Kit and was seemingly acting on her anger. She seemed to show no concern for his welfare whatsoever.

Everything out of this woman’s mouth since I had walked onto the property had been nasty, mean, and in anger. She was either having one hell of a bad day, or she was just a mean person. I wasn’t sure which, as this was the first time I had ever met her.

Kit’s owner had called her and told her I was coming out to visit with him and that I had her permission to handle him and take him out. She told her that my horse had just passed away and I needed the company of another horse to help ease my heart. That’s all she knew about me and she was nowhere near sympathetic. She was actually combative.

Then she told me that Kit had just stopped eating again for the last two days. She told me that Kit wasn’t even eating the hay that she grows herself on the farm. So, I told her that I would bring him his favorite hay so that he would start eating again. She said NO. What?! NO????

I asked her why I couldn’t bring in my own hay, that I knew Kit enjoyed and ate, at no cost to her in order to get Kit eating again. She again said that she only fed the horses the same thing and if they didn’t eat it, it was their choice. Again, no concern for what the horse needed.

At that point, I just lost it and it was not a pretty sight or sound. Finally she agreed to allow me to bring hay into Kit but she still said he wouldn’t eat it and I’d be wasting my money. She kept telling me how wrong I was. Not that she had another choice or plan of action for him.

And she kept ranting. She went on to tell me that she gave Kit calming meds, grief meds, anti-anxiety meds, and even sedatives because he was too much for her to handle during the first six weeks. I couldn’t believe it. She gave him medications, mixed them up, and even gave him shots without knowing his health background or any of his history.

Another big no no.

I was only there for 4 hours the first day and what I heard from this lady and one of her helpers proved to me, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that she was stuck in the past. She was not only not up on any updated training methods, but she had no empathy for horses, and was full of old school knowledge that emphasised force and punishment.

Horsemanship has come a long way since 1970 and even 1980. You just don’t tie a horse to a tree so they can’t move and then leave them there unattended overnight to teach them a lesson without any food or water. Yes, I was told she did this. And when they told me, they said it as if this was exactly what you are supposed to do when a horse gives you trouble. It was one of her students who saw her do this and told me.

This is what this lady had taught her student to do. This student is about 21 years old. And she told me this as if she was proud of learning this little training technique. She had no idea that “being the boss” and “beating a horse into submission” isn’t the only way anymore. Nor is it the best way.

The next thing I thought, and you are probably thinking this too…

This lady must have discussed all these issues with Kit’s owner in order to come up with a plan of action that was best for the horse. The horse doesn’t eat for six weeks, is starving to death, and she’s giving him lots of self-diagnosed medications. You would think that she had to tell the owner what was going on with their horse. Right?

NOPE!

I left the boarding facility in fear for Kit’s life and in disgust of this woman’s arrogance and lack of updated horsemanship knowledge. I had to get the other side of the story and find out what Kit’s owner knew about the situation. I was hoping there was a story I had not heard and it would make the situation look better than what I had seen on day one.

Well, I called Kit’s owner immediately after leaving the property and asked her what the lady had told her about Kit’s condition. She knew NOTHING. She said that she had talked to this lady every day for the first two weeks and then 3 times a week after that and that this lady kept telling her, “everything is great. Kit is doing well.” She lied to her.

Kit’s owner has become disabled and can no longer leave her home to visit Kit. So she is depending on this lady at the new boarding facility to take care of him. This lady knows this about Kit’s owner and she is paying her for full-care board.

Kit’s owner told me that she had been told that Kit gets turned out in a pasture every day for exercise, that he is in a barn stall every night, and he is fed twice daily, watered, and the stall is cleaned daily. Full-care also included a full bed of shavings, grooming, and blanketing when needed. But from what I saw the first week, this was not what was happening.

Kit’s owner was furious when she heard that he was in such bad shape and that she had never been told. This lady had never asked about his background, his health issues, or anything. All she knew was that he was a stallion that needed full care as his owner was disabled.

What I’ve seen and heard in the last 4 days is that Kit is in a barn with 10 other horses, one stallion directly across from him, 5 geldings, and three mares (plus one foal that was just born). All the horses except Kit get let out in the pastures twice a week. They are all stuck in a barn stall the other five days of the week. Kit is supposedly taken out 3 times a week for an hour a day and left in the field.

A very kind, sweet young lady, that I met, tries to take him out on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday when she is there to help out. Fortunately, for her, Kit likes her and is gentle with her knowing that she has a good heart. But she is about 19 years old, she has never had a horse, and she has never been around horses before she started taking riding lessons with this lady last summer. And during these lessons she has fallen off three times and the third time hit her head causing a concussion. She has no experience whatsoever with horses.

But since this lady can’t deal with Kit and they dislike each other so much, she is allowing a complete novice to take a stallion out to the pasture. That is just criminal in my book. She is putting this little girl’s life in jeopardy since she doesn’t want to handle him herself.

What if she walks him by the mares in heat? She doesn’t know what to do, or not to do, to keep herself safe around a stallion. Kit has been a breeder and remembers how that works. What if she walks him out while they are breeding the other stallion? What if???? Stallions are very different from Geldings in many ways.

I asked her if she knew that he was a stallion and she said, “yes, but how is that different from other horses?” Wow. Not her fault – it’s her trainers fault. This sweet girl also told me that she loved Kit and thought he was so beautiful when they brought him in. He was her dream horse.

So here’s my mental picture so far…

  • A stallion is put in a barn right next to another breeding stallion – THREAT
  • A stallion is put in a barn with three other mares, one just had a baby and is lactating, one is pregnant, and the third is a breeding mare in heat – The smells alone keep him in high gear and anxious. (There is a good reason you have a mare barn and you keep the stallions separated until you’re ready to breed)
  • A stallion who is still in breeding age and healthy gets locked in a stall 24/7 with only 1 hour turnouts 3 times a week. There’s a lot of energy there that needs to get released somehow. But then if he’s running the fence line trying to get the mare’s attention, he could be running off all the food he’s eating (or not eating).
  • There are a lot of new people around taking him here and there with their own agenda and no connection or knowledge about his situation.
  • A few times a week, children are given lessons and they walk the mares right outside Kit’s stall and stand there not knowing how they are torturing this stallion, and not knowing why he is running around frantically in his stall.
    • On day four there were 5 children under the age of 8 running around the barn with two mares after their lessons, with no adult supervision. One mare actually got away from one little girl when she took off the bridle and it ran right up to Kit’s stall and they started fighting (the mating dance). I had to handle the situation. But what if I wasn’t there? Those children would have been in danger. They were lucky I was in Kit’s stall grooming him and knew what to do.

So in summary, Kit goes to a new place, is missing his buddy Danny (he passed right before he was moved), has another stallion who is breeding right in front of him all the time, three mares in and out of heat very close to him, being thrown a new type of hay that he doesn’t like, given new grain that he’s never had and doesn’t like, being stuck with needles and given medications that are doing who knows what, missing his owner and his trainer (me), and having to deal with lots of kids and other strangers running around causing havoc.

Poor guy!

CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING

Please Share


  • Please could you get Kits owner to agree to move him to a decent yard where his needs will be met and you can support and supervise

    • You are much nicer than I would be. This situation is criminal. I would have gotten the state vet involved immediately and started the process to get the barn shut down. If the picture Teddie paints is accurate, there could be animal cruelty charges brought against the barn owner. For me, leaving Kit there for one more night would not have been an option. If his board is paid up, an owner can take the horse out any time they please. And, even if the owner is handicapped and is lied to, she has a responsibility to make sure the horse is OK. Send a friend out to check! I probably should not have read these blogs, because I am sickened and angry. I'm not going to be polite. DO SOMETHING NOW!!!

      • I lost it the second I saw him and acted right away. I got the state vet involved and animal control immediately. And I started looking for places to relocate him. Unfortunately, being a stallion made it extremely difficult. There are no boarding facilities that take stallions here. With the help of many, we finally found him a private home to relocate to and they are repairing fences for him as we speak. He will be moved shortly. The other issue is that he was not well enough to be moved until now due to his emaciation. But he has been under a vet’s care and watched by animal control since I contacted them. I have never stopped doing something since I first saw him. I am protecting him and bringing him back to health.

  • Bonnie Beresford says:

    Teddie, will the owner let you take him? That seems to be the best alternative she has at this point. Can she not see that? I so fervently hope that you can somehow take possession of him before something irreversible happens.

    • The owner is very appreciative that I have stepped in to save his life and take care of him daily. He is getting better and a solution has been found.

  • Catherine Vincent says:

    This is a matter for the authorities, have you informed the animal rescue folks? The woman should be shut down, she’s beyond education.

  • Leslie Roberts says:

    Wow, you can really tell a lot about someone by how they treat animals. This lady telling you how Kit was the most problematic horse she's had there struck a note with me because the boarding place that starved my horse said the same thing about my horse. Deep down, these people know they are treating the horses badly and try to make it the horses fault. There are no excuses! I hope Kit can get away from there fast.

    • Absolutely. Kit is the sweetest stallion I’ve known and for her to say that told me a lot about her. Especially with the young novice who was able to handle him and said he was so sweet. We have found a new place for Kit, but are waiting for the fences to be repaired for him. Soon, very soon.

  • After reading your replies to others who have posted responses here, I am stoked to hear that you have managed to find alternative grazing and that he will be able to be moved soon. How wonderful. We all look forward to hearing how Kit flourishes under your loving care. Kit's owner is very blessed to have your help and friendship x

  • {"email":"Email address invalid","url":"Website address invalid","required":"Required field missing"}

    Other Lessons you might like...

    Get my free, weekly lessons direct to your email inbox

    5 Myths PDF Poster

    PLUS a copy of my 5 horse myths PDF Poster
    The 'facts' about horses that we're told that just aren't valid
    Enter your details below to get it now along with the weekly lessons

    >